NO POINTING FINGERS

NO POINTING FINGERS

  A man asked his father-in-law, 'Many people praised you for a
successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?'
  The father-in-law answered in a smile, 'Never criticize your wife
for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in
mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not
find a better husband than you.'

  We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are
afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he
would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is
the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one
finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

  If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.